Can you give me advice on my girlfriend.. kinda?

Is it possible that carly is lauren using someone else's pictures? I would say that her reluctance to meet up is a bit odd considering you have talked over the phone. It sounds like someone maybe lauren or one of her friends is setting you up for something embarring. But if everything is truly legit you should give carly a little more time to get to know you to meet you. Try talking to her more on the phone